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I’m engaged to a woman I love very much who’s also both an alcoholic (in recovery) and an epileptic. For most of the time I’ve know her the seizures have been kept in check with meds, but when she’s relapsed with alcohol in the past they’ve come on like clockwork. I used to associate the mood swings she’d go through with these relapses with the alcohol, but I’m seeing now that that’s not likely to be the case.
Last Friday was her birthday and to celebrate she bought this herbal “mood relaxer” called Red Dawn. I wasn’t too happy about it, but she was insistent, and bought it anyway. It came in a 6 ounce bottle with instructions to take two cap-fulls. Well, she drank 2/3 of the bottle ,and of course, later on this ended up bringing on seizures, which continued sporadically Saturday and Sunday. I later found out that she hadn’t taken her Dilantin on purpose that day and the night before because she, ironically, didn’t want a bad reaction.
Thankfully the seizures stopped after Sunday, but now it’s like I’m living with a completely different woman. Her moods are all over the place, her judgment is way off, she’s still having memory gaps, she has trouble figuring out what words she wants to use, and she’s become incredibly nasty. This has happened before when there have been seizures, but I always chalked this up to alcohol. Well, she’s on antabuse (sp?), and we were with family Friday who also ensures she can’t drink, so I know that this time that wasn’t a factor.
I really feel guilty, because I know deep down it’s not her fault, but I really don’t want to be around her at all when she’s like this. She’ll go from wanting to have sex (which I haven’t been into at all just because of the way she’s been) to saying she’s going to leave me and vice versa at the drop of a hat. This has lasted for a couple of weeks before, and it’s become very hard to want to go home when she’s like this. She’s also always tired during episodes like this, always falling asleep incredibly early. I can’t talk to her about this at all because as soon as I bring it up the defenses go right up and nothing I say can be right.
Is this normal? Are mood swings and behavior changes like this common after seizures, and lasting this long? Is it a symptom of something more?
Last Friday was her birthday and to celebrate she bought this herbal “mood relaxer” called Red Dawn. I wasn’t too happy about it, but she was insistent, and bought it anyway. It came in a 6 ounce bottle with instructions to take two cap-fulls. Well, she drank 2/3 of the bottle ,and of course, later on this ended up bringing on seizures, which continued sporadically Saturday and Sunday. I later found out that she hadn’t taken her Dilantin on purpose that day and the night before because she, ironically, didn’t want a bad reaction.
Thankfully the seizures stopped after Sunday, but now it’s like I’m living with a completely different woman. Her moods are all over the place, her judgment is way off, she’s still having memory gaps, she has trouble figuring out what words she wants to use, and she’s become incredibly nasty. This has happened before when there have been seizures, but I always chalked this up to alcohol. Well, she’s on antabuse (sp?), and we were with family Friday who also ensures she can’t drink, so I know that this time that wasn’t a factor.
I really feel guilty, because I know deep down it’s not her fault, but I really don’t want to be around her at all when she’s like this. She’ll go from wanting to have sex (which I haven’t been into at all just because of the way she’s been) to saying she’s going to leave me and vice versa at the drop of a hat. This has lasted for a couple of weeks before, and it’s become very hard to want to go home when she’s like this. She’s also always tired during episodes like this, always falling asleep incredibly early. I can’t talk to her about this at all because as soon as I bring it up the defenses go right up and nothing I say can be right.
Is this normal? Are mood swings and behavior changes like this common after seizures, and lasting this long? Is it a symptom of something more?