I keep coming back to the driving issue. My husband and I just talked about this yesterday. I always feel like a burden to him and everyone else because I'm always getting my driving privileges revoked and/or its pretty much a given I'm not driving any distance.
I lost my driving privileges permanently in the state of Indiana. My neuro refused to give them back to me. Indiana doesn't take your other state license from you though so I did the "bad" thing... I lied to keep my other state license valid so I could work overseas (no valid license= no work).
I lost my driving privileges in NC when I first started having seizures
I lost my driving privileges in Kuwait after having two seizures
I've now lost my driving privileges in OH
Losing your driving privileges truly sucks. It is associated with freedom, normalcy, need, work, financial attainment, social interaction, etc. I REALLY had to wrestle with it in the beginning and I WOULD take off in my car just out of pure spite and frustration. I like sports cars...I like to drive fast, with the windows down and the radio blaring...just me, my car and the road
But...in the end it isn't about me. A car is over a thousand lbs of powered machine on wheels. They can do a great deal of harm and could
cause someone else to have E. I've been hit by a car, I've been told that it sent me flying about 10-12 feet in the air. There is a good possibility that it may be the cause of my E. I could never wish that on someone else. Since my seizures are completely unpredictable I have to be responsible and proactive. No matter how much I miss it or how inconvenient it is, I don't drive unless absolutely necessary...even if the doctor says it is ok.
If a doctor advises against driving there is a reason...it isn't because they are out to get you or make your life difficult. It is because they have to consider the safety of everyone, not just the individual.